Sunday, July 21, 2013

This is what happens when...

It’s always interesting to see how people react when they are backed into a corner and given no other option but to tell the truth. You see every emotion dance across their face before they land on one they think is appropriate for the situation, hoping all the while you didn’t notice the fear, hurt, shock and lies make their way through. But you did and it gave you a jolt of excitement because it made you realize for those brief moments you were totally in control of that other person.

Then they are ready to explain themselves and you see their lips are moving but the only thing you can hear is; “I betrayed you, lied about it, threw our friendship away and wasn’t bothered by it”….now what they are actually saying sounds something like, “I’m really sorry, I didn’t mean for this to happen, I don’t want you to be mad anymore and if you just give me a chance to explain”. But you don’t want to hear any pre-planned, well thought out explanations. You got your answer in the heat of the moment when no one was thinking and everyone was just screaming how they really felt.

You realized sexual attraction trumps friendship, every time.